Human life undergoes 7 profound stages:

 

  1. The Original
    You are born exactly as you are: pure and authentic.
  2. The Trimming
    Parents, siblings, and society impose boundaries, cutting back on your freedom so that you fit into the system.
  3. The Disruption
    You adapt to these limitations and settle for the manipulated version of yourself you have become.
  4. The Competition
    Operating within this new role, you begin to compete with others who are playing the same game.
  5. The Eruption
    Things start to go wrong. Having pushed the roleplay too far, you begin to suffer—experiencing illness, aggression, or desperation. There is only one way out: stop living this way.
  6. The Choosing
    It becomes clear that pivotal choices must be made. When you choose from the heart, this transformation elevates you to the final stage.
  7. The Cultivation
    You live in full alignment with your true self. This is the time to listen to your inner growth and continuously cultivate who you really are.

 

Important Insights:

  • Overlapping Stages: Disruption and competition can occur simultaneously and may last an entire lifetime.
  • The Comfort of Security: Not everyone reaches the stage of eruption. Some only experience a brief taste of it, ultimately choosing security and remaining in the life they already know.
  • The Turning Point: As soon as the eruption begins, choices naturally start to present themselves.
  • The Ultimate Choice: The most critical decision at this juncture is choosing between remaining a victim within the system, or becoming a fighter who battles for the freedom that was taken away.

It is clear that not everyone goes through all seven stages. In fact, only a few will. If you can read, resonate with, and understand these stages, you are already on your path to self-development and have no intention of quitting.

At Yuan Medicine, we are here to support and guide those who choose to fight for a renewed life.